Friday, March 21, 2008
Brothers Wedding
okay, so im going to vent in this one! so if you dont want to read it feel free not to because its nothing to important. anyways my brother is getting married august 9th. and the main reasoin for writing this blog is well, my sister and i are not in the wedding. in my opinion, i honestly think that is really disrespectful to the family. i was really upset about it and i honestly didnt think my sister would be upset about it, but she is! she said something to my mom and my mom said something to my brother. when my mom talked to my brother, my brother had no idea that you usually have your sister or sisters in the wedding! my brother is so laid back and doesn't care about anything. his fiance has the five girls in her wedding who are her best friends and she was in their wedding. i know she knows it's the right think to do to ask the sisters to be in the wedding. i mean don't get me wroing i love my brothers fiance to death but this bothers me so much ! the wedding is going to be different to. its going to be in arkansas which is where she is from. instead of being in a church its going to be in a ballroom and everyone is going to be seated at tables. the reception food is going to be mexican good. i mean what if everyone doesn't like mexican food. i dont know it just bothers me that she is going this all her way and not letting my brother decided anything. but then again my brother doesn not care and won't speak up since he is so laid back. she is this because she is the only child and no offense to being the only child. i mean there is differences in being the only child and being raised to not have everything your way and being raised by having everything your way! i dont know im just really upset about this issue and felt like venting. i mean would anybody else be upset about this or am i over exaggerating?
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I would definitely be upset. It's just the way things are supposed to be done. Oh well, at least you won't have to spring for an ugly dress that you'll never wear again and wouldn't want to wear in the first place.
So I guess I would not blame your brother because he's a guy and didn't know that his sisters should be in the wedding..but his fiance should know that, especially since she's been in other weddings. I would get upset, too! I don't know..that just seems kind of rude to not even ask you and your sister, you know? I am not trying to talk badly about a girl I have never met before, but it sounds like she's kind of spoiled..but hey, I don't know the girl so don't quote me on that one.
I am so sorry! That would be like my sister telling me that I was not going to be in her wedding! I think it is really funny that she is doing a Mexican themed wedding! I bet it will turn out cute and fun but the wedding party will be missing someone!
Yeah that is pretty disrespectful; you and your sister have lived with your brother and grew up with him. I would be really upset too if that happened to me. I think that his fiancé is being unfair and so is your brother. I hope that you get it figured out.
i would freak out. first of all i would want it to be in a church, i dont know why, but tables? next it would certainly hurt my feelings to not get to be in my brothers wedding... in fact i would cry. i only have one brother, and that is only one wedding to be in.. so he better marry someone who asks me!
p.s. thanks for driving us last night!
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